Every man out there should learn how to approach women, because if he doesn't, he is missing out on the vital first step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a relationship with her...
You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your pickup. The following are some proven tips I'd recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting women!
Remember a situation where you were going to approach a girl, and before you could even get a single word out, she freaked out and simply rejected you?
Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the right way! Once you've "blown it" with a girl, it is extremely hard to recover.
The key to approaching women is to approach them in a NON-THREATENING manner that does not telegraph your interest.
This is all about coming in "under the radar."
It's the woman's reality that she constantly gets guys approaching her and trying to pick her up, so her natural inclination is to nip this in the bud quickly by outright REJECTING any man who seems interested in her.
Think about this: if you had homeless people constantly walking up to you begging for change, you'd get pretty sick of it, right? Well, to most women, guys who try and pick them up are no better than that - an annoyance.
Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how to do it RIGHT.
I guess the big question is - what's the right way to approach a woman?
The first secret is - DO NOT HESITATE!
If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you're never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it's important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.
Another tip - know what to say BEFORE you approach a woman! Meeting women becomes so much easier when you don't have to waste time thinking of what to say to her to start a conversation.
When it comes to a situation like this, you should probably have a good, proven "pick up line" memorized that will help start a conversation.
But I'm not talking about the "Hey, nice shoes, what to have sex?" type line. The point is to be NON-THREATENING, remember?
The best lines usually engage the girl in an innocent conversation. You can do so by asking her opinion on something and then following that up with more questions.
An important tip you should be aware of is to always approach a woman at an angle instead of charging towards her like you're going to war! When you approach at an angle, it's much less confrontational and you're going to subconsciously put the woman more at ease than if you approached her head-on.
Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That's why it's so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you're talking to girls!
If you're not comfortable approaching women, the best way to overcome it is to go out there and start approaching women right away! After all, practice makes perfect, right?
The sad fact is, you're not going to get good at approaching women if all you do is sit around reading about it and studying it like a test. If you want to get good and have success, you actually have to go out and DO IT so you can build your experience level. (The good news - it gets easier the more you do it!)
If you're afraid of rejection, adjust your goals so that it's hard to get rejected. Too many guys try and get the phone number, the date, or the quick romp in the sack. Instead, take baby steps and set your goal as just talking to the girl and carrying on a conversation. Use that as your measure of success. Remember, you're just learning the right way of doing things.
That's it!
Make it a game by seeing how many girls you can talk to in one day, and then try and beat your score.
The last thing you want to remember is always use a "time constraint" when approaching a woman. This is very easy to do - just tell her right off the bat that you're not going to be long because you have to get back to what you were doing.
Time constraints let the girl you're talking to know that you're not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will be a quick conversation. Because of this, she'll be more willing to engage in your talk.
If the initial approach goes well and the conversation continues, she will eventually forget you said you can only talk for a "minute" and you can talk as long as you want. The whole point is just to get your "foot in the door."
Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.